To those who read my blog. Thank you. I promise I will eventually finish my last blog which asked the question of whether or not your "personal relationship with God is destroying your spiritual vitality?" I'm going to need your help over the next few weeks. I'm currently taking a class at Biblical Theological Seminary. One assignment is for me to write a blog post that speaks about a controversial issue. The syllabus says that "The blog entry should frame an issue responsibly, winsomely and yet provocatively enough to encourage readership and engagement. This assignment is designed to assess how well the student is able to frame controversial issues in a way that is both responsible and encourages further conversation and dialogue." Well you all know my incredible propensity for 'winsomeness' so this will be a true exercise for me. Here's where you come in. The blogs need to be around 1000 words. That's a bit long for a blog but that's the assignment. If you are so led, please write any comments that you have on the website instead of sending them to me directly, so that my professor can see that there are people actually reading these posts. There are 23 of you that are subscribers and receive the posts right to you r email. If you have a friend who may be interested in what I've written please forward it on to them because we want to get as much discussion going as possible. Now, what controversial subject can we talk about????
Do Evangelical churches pick on the homosexual lifestyle?
Have you ever noticed how often homosexuality comes up in conversations that Christians have? Maybe you've noticed it coming up a lot in sermons or Bible Studies that you've been listening to. Do you find it coming up more often than the Bible mentions it or more often than the other sins that God lists alongside homosexuality in 1 Corinthians 6? What do you hear more about homosexuality, adultery, thievery, greediness, drunkenness, or swindling? Well all of our experiences are different and I can't speak to what you experience but I can say that because of the young Christians that I hang around with there are probably more conversations concerning homosexuality than many of the others that I've listed. But I'll also say that I've had many conversations with young people concerning drunkenness. I've also had a lot of conversation with young people concerning the validity of swindling (to obtain fraudulently) music or movies off of the internet without paying for them.
There may be some churches who have been entirely unfair and decidedly unwelcoming to people who describe themselves as homosexuals. There may be individuals or groups of Christians that have a lot of fear concerning interaction with gays. But it is important to remember that this is not an issue that is solely present in the church. I've had many conversations with non-Christians who would be perfectly open to having gays as co-workers but shiver at the thought that their son or daughter would describe themselves as a homosexual. In other words,' it's perfectly okay for it to take place theoretically but the idea of having to interact with it on a day to day basis scares me to death.' All of this, when it manifests itself in the life of the church is fear driven rather than Scripture driven.
It may be, however, that homosexuality comes up more often in Christian contexts because out of all of the sins listed in 1 Corinthians 6 it is the one sin that (by my guess) is no longer considered sinful in mass American culture. Would a majority of people in America believe that drunkenness is bad? It's not just people in AA, most people believe it's bad. Would a majority of people believe that adultery is bad? Some might call it risky but almost no one would call it good. But if you asked a group of American's about homosexuality, we seem to have been programmed to say that it might not be to our liking or to our preference but could we call it wrong or sinful? I don't think we're willing to go there.
Christ was so confident in the character of His Father that no interaction, with those perceived as unclean, bothered Him. He knew what it meant to understand and do the will of His Father. He was not confused as to whether or not the woman at the well (John 4) had a major sin issue but His understanding of her sin did not cause Him to fear her or distance Himself from her. At the same time, He didn't allow the call to relate to her keep Him from talking to her about her need for a Savior that manifested itself in a sinful lifestyle. Her sin did not cause Him to fear her but to draw near to her. I'm absolutely convinced that a whole life of homosexuality activity is on consistent with faith in Christ. When Christ comes into a life he will begin to eradicated heterosexual and homosexual sin. 1 Corinthians 6 says that the believers in Corinth, before their conversion were living sinful lives of many types but God saved and sanctified them. But that belief should not keep me from ministering to people that have real sexual struggles.
Will future generations of Christians cave on the sin issue of homosexuality? Many Christian groups already have. Is it really that important? Why is it important? I'd love to hear your thoughts.
-Mark Evans
1 Corinthians 9:22–23, “I have become all things to all people, that by all means I might save some. I do it all for the sake of the gospel, that I may share with them in its blessings.”
ReplyDeleteHomosexuality is a cultural hot topic, and what is important in mainstream culture often seems to work its way into church culture (at least for debating purposes). Unfortunately, those within the church most publicly vocal about this topic seem to be the most... harsh. We are called to speak the truth in love. When we obsess over a sin, any sin, we miss the person... we miss Jesus' call for their repentance... we miss the Gospel.
Believers and churches who condone homosexuality are denying a sinful act that Jesus calls us to repent of. This is surely heresy, as homosexuality is defined as a sin numerous times throughout both the old and new testament. However, there are right and wrong ways to go about confronting sin.
I am no expert, but it seems to me that the face many Christians have presented to the secular world regarding homosexuality has been one of condemnation and hate rather than love and forgiveness. Maybe we should all take some time to think about the way we as Christians are trying to change culture.
Controversial topics:
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Role of women in the 21st century Evangelical church
Post modern reading of Scripture
When to break fellowship?
Are you saved if you don't believe in predestination?
Wealth- should any American live the way they do knowing the plight of believers in the rest of the world? In fact, anything to do with money (should Christians have a 401k?)
There are two aspects of homosexuality that I see having a negative effect in church. First, there is the nature or the unnatural nature of of the lifestyle--the "gross" factor. It is hard for heterosexual people, no matter how open minded, to imagine themselves as homosexuals, and, you're right, we are scared to death that somehow our kids might turn out gay.
ReplyDeleteBut what causes the most consternation in church, I think, is the political aspect of the gay rights movement. As gay people and their political supporters push for a redefinition of institutions such as parenthood and marriage, they threaten the ancient bases of civilization. Maybe society is more resilient than we think, and we shoujld not feel as threatened as we do, but the church has an obligation to stand up and fight against these political and social campaigns.
I think a reason Christians latch onto homosexuality is because it is a sin that many of them do not struggle with. It is easy to attack "gay culture" and the "gay lifestyle" because many Christians may not have those kind of feelings. Thus, it is very easy to condemn homosexuality and try to pinpoint it as a "choice" and something that is what I like to call "more sinful." A Christian might say that they struggle with certain sins, but those sins are not quite as bad as homosexuality. I wonder what those same Christians might say when confronted with the sin that is in their lives, but is perhaps not so easily visible: Pride, greed, anger, heterosexual lust, and so forth. These sins do not count any less but many Christians treat homosexuality as worse then other sins. All sin separates us from God, not just the ones we don't commit.
ReplyDeleteTo counter a point above, I think precisely because Christianity is involved so heavily in politics is part of the reason it may be losing relevance in our society. I would rather see a dedicated, true church rather than the "Christian Culture" which exists in politics, where a hollow shade of Christianity exists to denounce gays in the military, attack liberalism, evolution, and so forth. I don't think our government should do anything involving marriage whatsoever. Allow civil unions to whoever seeks them, along with the benefits that are currently granted with marriages, and allow churches, mosques, synagogues, and other institutions to grant marriage as they see fit. Protecting marriage shouldn't require denying gay couples the rights to hospital visitations and other basic rights.
OOOOHHH I like it... Weavs is disagreeing with Charles... but I want Weavs to qualify a statement. You said "I don't think our government should do anything involving marriage whatsoever. Allow civil unions to whoever seeks them, along with the benefits that are currently granted with marriages, and allow churches, mosques, synagogues, and other institutions to grant marriage as they see fit." Do you really believe that anyone that wants to be married, should be able to be married? I'd like to know what you think...
ReplyDeleteJust one more comment... all JCE did was list a bunch of controversial topics... he's a controversy waiting to happen.
ReplyDeleteTo add to Evans' question - there is a woman who was married to her bow, which she then divorced to marry the Eiffel Tower (I don't know if they stayed together). If we as believers completely drop out of the political arena, it seems inevitable that heterosexual marriage (I doubt they'll switch the name to "civil unions") will evolve into gay/lesbian marriage, and over time, human/object marriage (already precedent), human/animal, adult/child, polygamous... Mark, I agree with your opinion -the present-day mix of Christianity and politics is mostly revolting - but I have to say that the long-term implications of loosening the term of marriage are not exactly exciting. Where does that leave us?
ReplyDeleteThat Christians have not conducted themselves well in the public square is not an excuse not to stand for basic principles of civilization when necessary. The "defense of marriage" is not just a theological perspective. It is about the basis of social structures that have survived intact for 10,000+ years. Let them have insurance. Leave both the civil and religious institutions (you can't separate them, because ministers are licensed by the state to perforom a civil function) of marriage out of it.
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ReplyDelete1. I tend to agree with Mark who wrote "I don't think our government should do anything involving marriage whatsoever." Marriage was and is instituted and defined by God. I don't believe that a government needs to understand and apply my personal religious beliefs concerning it. (I am willing to give up my marital tax status:) I think that expecting government to hold up moral standards is silly. Should we be sanctified by legislation!?! May it never be!!
ReplyDelete2. The Church has no legs to stand on concerning sexual ethics of any kind. We've all heard it said that the divorce rate in the Church rivals the rate outside the Church. I wonder how our numbers would fair concering porn addiction.
So, why is there a particular stigma concerning homosexuality? Should it be viewed in the same light as the porn addiction and adultery that run rampant in the Church?
Christians HAVE often done more than "pick" on gay-identifying people...we've often said and done things that are hateful and very 'anti-Jesus'. The ministry I serve with Harvest USA (www.harvestusa.org) mainly has Christian men and women who come to us for help. Many of them are wrestling with same-sex attractions/temptations...some have never acted on it, others have. What is sad for us is that most come from churches in which they would never feel comfortable sharing their struggles.
ReplyDeleteHomosexuality is a behavior, not an identity. The Body of Christ must learn biblical sexuality, and also a biblical view of temptation, growth in Christ and grace!
Thanks Mark, for raising a great question!